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Hope is being able to see that there is light despite all of the darkness. – Desmond Tutu In the eye of a hurricane, there exists virtual calm, blue sky and sunlight, often dazzling. So too, in the midst of our violent, dark storm there were moments of peace, light, and hope; moments we treasured.…
Bad humor is an evasion of reality; good humor is an acceptance of it. – Malcolm Muggeridge A little bit of mercy makes the world less cold and more just. – Pope Francis The following is a continuation of my memoir as seen in my last blog. Patience and humility became my constant companions. It…
You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment if you don’t trust enough. – Frank Crane When I was a child, an adolescent, even a young adult, trust was a sixth sense, a gut instinct, something that was freely given and received. In spite of being battered and…
Learning to trust is one of life’s most difficult tasks. – Isaac Watts I have struggled with two major mental and physical illnesses which have played havoc with my concept of trust; they nearly destroyed and made it impossible to regain and embrace. Irregardless of my own situation, I believe that in today’s world and atmosphere,…
We learn humility through accepting humiliations cheerfully. – Mother Teresa Manic depression and cerebellitis have been, and continue to be, my most formidable teachers. I am a poor student; consequently, Humility is a lesson that merits continuous repetition. I told Regina that I had to urinate. She helped me into bed and handed me a…
Humility is always a good thing. It’s always a good thing to be humbled by circumstances so you can then come from a sincere place to try to deal with them. – Michael J. Fox Humility was another important lesson. As a child, my understanding of humility was limited to platitudes and threats: “Don’t let…
The oldest and strongest emotion of mankind is fear, and the oldest and strongest kind of fear is fear of the unknown. – H.P. Lovecraft Fear has spawned many children; one of his favorites is Uncertainty who enjoys traveling with his sibling, Worry- Fear’s most insidious child. Together they are a formidable, often overwhelming threat…
Patience is a virtue, and I am learning patience. It’s a tough lesson. – Elon Musk I have learned, and continue to learn, the many meanings of Patience. But what, then, is a Virtue? It, too, has many meanings: goodness, righteousness, and morality. Virtue also connotes Dignity: self-respect, pride, and self-esteem. In this sense, my…
Patience is the art of concealing your impatience. – Guy Kawasaki As an adult, dentistry taught me some of the finer points of patience: focus, attention to detail, and concentration. My patients were good teachers. I once spent eight hours taking impressions for bridgework for a woman injured in an automobile accident. Except for a…
Have patience with all things, but first of all with yourself. – Saint Francis de Sales I have had many great teachers who have tried to teach me the virtue of patience. Two of the best instructors and taskmasters have been bipolar disorder and cerebellitis. I believe wholeheartedly with St. Francis; the lessons must begin…