God Was In His Heaven, And All Was Right With My World!

Hope was by my side; Fear was nowhere in sight. God was in his heaven, and all was right with my world. – Peter Kurt Haarmeyer – Quote from “I’m Afraid”   On December 3, 1988, my wife, Laura, and I attended an annual dinner dance honoring the outgoing president of our local dental society.…

A Place That Is Dark And Terrifying

Every day we have plenty of opportunities to get angry, stressed or offended. But what you’re doing when you indulge these negative emotions is giving something outside yourself power over your happiness. You can choose to not let little things upset you. – Joel Osteen   Fear has brought countless children into the world; they…

The oldest and strongest emotion of mankind is fear. And the oldest and strongest kind of fear is fear of the unknown. – H.P. Lovecraft  I used this quote once before, but I find it relevant for today’s blog as well.  Fear and I have been intimate friends since childhood. He rarely misses an opportunity to…

A Sense Of Humor…Never Leave Home Without It!!!

If you are depressed, you are living in the past. If you are anxious, you are living in the future. If you are at peace, you are living in the present. – Lao Tzu   If you could choose one characteristic that would get you through life, choose a sense of humor. – Jennifer Jones…

Depression is not exclusive to mental illnesses

Self-esteem and a healthy body image for people with disabilities are so often hard-fought. – Stella Young  I am mentally and physically disabled due to bipolar disorder and cerebellitis. Each one, in its own right, represents a significant challenger to self-confidence and a thriving self-image; together, they can be inseparable, overwhelming adversaries. Depression is not…

Every Dark Cloud Has A Silver Lining

Much as we may wish to make a new beginning, some part of us resists doing so as though we were making the first step toward disaster. – William Throsby Bridges   Happy New Year! Out With The Old And In With The New! Time For A Change! These sayings resound throughout the world, especially…

WE HUMAN BEINGS

Mankind is a great, an immense family. – Pope John XXIII Only a life lived for others is a life worthwhile. – Albert Einstein Service to others is the rent you pay for your room here on earth. – Muhammad Ali Gentleness, self-sacrifice and generosity are the exclusive possession of no one race or religion. –…

Is God Deaf?

He who created us without our help will not save us without our consent. – St. Augustine  In 1971, an intruder stole into my apartment and held me hostage for two days. I did not know who he was; I did not know his name; I did not discover his real identity until twelve years…

I Needed To Heal My Mind & My Body

As a single footstep will not make a path on the earth, so a single thought will not make a pathway in the mind. To make a deep physical path, we walk again and again. To make a deep mental path, we must think over and over the kind of thoughts we wish to dominate…

Personal Responsibility In The Face Of Change

You must take personal responsibility. You cannot change the circumstances, the seasons, or the wind, but you can change yourself. That is something you have charge of. – Jim Rohn Two previous blogs dealt with the changes facing me following the treatment of my bipolar disorder and release from the hospital. The major manic and…